Controlling Anger In Life

In the past, I'm one who is grumpy. I can not curb my anger every day. My father is aware of this.

To relieve my anger, my father gave a bag of nails and told me that I nailed the nails into the fence behind the house every time I'm angry.

The first day I could have nailed 48 nails into the fence behind the house. But gradually the amount was reduced. I realize that it's easier to hold anger rather than nailing the nails into the fence. Akihrnya I can hold and control my anger that had been after me. I memberitakukan this to my father.

My father told me to pull out one nail in the fence every day when I'm not angry. The days passed and does not feel the nails which had been stuck me unplug and remove all. I tell this to my father that all the nails had me unplug.

Dad smiled at me, and he led me into the fence. And said "Well, you've done well my son, but, look at the holes in this fence. The fence will never be the same as before. "When you say things in anger. Your words leave scars. "

I realized this that I am angry every time I thought of the people that I grudge it. Dad added saying "As of this hole ... in the hearts of others. You can stick a knife in someone, then pull out the knife ... But no matter many times you're sorry, the wound will still be there ... and the wound because the words are as bad as physical wounds ... "

Thank You Dad, now I can reduce and control my anger at any time and every time.


from:http://www.resensi.net/mengendalikan-amarah-dalam-jiwa/2011/05/