Wasitya D.Anggoro

Minggu, 08 Mei 2011

In the past, used to be really ... just as I was sitting on the bench class 1 high school, there is an audition for a school magazine, of course at school I just sit on the bench earlier. Because I like desperate and want to find a new activity (in addition to playing the guitar at home after home school), I decided to take part in it. Like the teenagers in general, my spirit is very passionate moment, just the offer for me to answer with her index finger upward and above, "I want!" And it was my first person in class who volunteered.
Not after a long, Indonesian Master with his wry smile, pause recording myself on the list of candidates for the school magazine. The most fundamental and may be accepted, is a condition that is very exclusive, 'Is Students rank candidates 1 and 2, or Have High Danem', suddenly I was shocked while holding shame, because in fact, I did not enter the category.
The teacher was then looking for new candidates, with reason, I was the backup if there are no longer candidates for that class. The act is a whip for me, that why I sehina? A magazine that why elegant school? Because no one wanted, the decision fell on me and another girl with a pretty high value. "Okky, what could you? You so stupid," fun of him in front of 50 students. I casually replied, "My parents never doubted me when I was learning to walk, so why should I hesitate?" I replied firmly.
'Battle' was begun, the first year, when it was still a junior member, I managed to collect my articles well before the deadline date, a second year, I successfully elected a new chairman mnenjadi, or his cool language, Chief Editor. A number of changes I did, began to use standard language, recruitment is no longer concerned with values, recognition of personal abilities, to the new look magazine. I succeeded beyond beautiful girl with the best value.
Best Achievement High School Journalists, I managed to achieve, and the trust of friends, teachers, principals, teachers pematah spirit to it, turned to me, students are stupid and ribbing material.
Regardless of the education White Grey, the lapse of several years of course, I decided to continue my hobby as a journalist by applying as a journalist in the local media. In the spirit of ribbing before, I managed to become Coordinator Report, editor, until the PR within 2 years of my work.
Not His achievement at the heart of this writing, but I managed to conquer the scourge of mockery that is always a wedge over the years. Teacher pematah that spirit now turned shy when she saw me at school reunions. But without my knowing it, Guru Guru was already turned into my spirit burner. I hug him, and I say, "Thank you for mocking the mother first."
Today I megajak you to do what you want to do. No matter how small it is, anything as low as you are, if it wishes it could change your life for the better, Do it!
Add to ridicule, insults, and barriers as a stone jump. Your intention is more valuable than a number of academic, achievement values, living conditions, physical deficiencies, a minority tribe, and anything that makes you different from your environment.
Our lives are expensive, because the author was the greatest masters, scientists from all scientists, and nothing can humble you in this world, because God created you with the Perfect.




from:http://www.resensi.net/apa-kamu-bisa/2011/01/

Jumat, 06 Mei 2011

In one afternoon, a child came to his father who was reading the newspaper ... "Father, father" said the child ...
"What?" Asked the father ... ..
"I'm tired, very tired ... I'm dead tired because I'm studying hard to get good grades were my friend can get good grades by cheating ... I just want to cheat! I'm tired. very tired ...
I'm tired because I have to continue to help mom clean the house, while my friend had a maid, I wish we had a maid! ... I Capel, very tired ...
I'm tired because I have to save money, while my friend can keep spending without saving ... I want to snack on! ...
I'm tired, very tired because I have to keep lisanku not to hurt, being my friend nice just to talk until I hurt ...
I'm tired, very tired because I had to keep my attitude in honor of my friends, is my friend offhand attitude to my ...
I'm tired of my father, I'm tired of holding myself ... I want to be like them ... they look happy, I want to be like their dad! .. "The boy began to cry ...
Then the father just smiled and stroked his head, saying "Come join my father, my father would show you something", then the father of the child's hand and then pull them down a road that is very bad, a lot of thorns, insects, mud, and weeds ... then the child began to complain of "our father where are you going? I do not like this way, see my shoes so dirty, my feet hurt because thorn. my body is surrounded by insects, berjalanpun hard krn there are many weeds ... I hate this road father "... the father is only silence.
Until finally they arrive at a beautiful lake, the water was very fresh, there are many butterflies butterflies, beautiful flowers, and trees that shade ...
"Wwaaaah dad ... what is this place? I like it! I like this place! "the father only silence and then sat under a shady tree green grass repose.
"Come here son, come sit next to dad" said the father, then the child had come to sit beside his father.
"My son, do you know why so quiet here? but this place is so beautiful ...? "
"Do not know the father, so what?"
"That's because those people do not want an ugly down the road before, but they know no lake here, but they can not be patient in down the road"
"Ooh ... we mean a patient man so well? alhamdulillah "
"Well, you finally understand"
"Understand what? I do not understand "
"My son, it takes patience to learn, it takes patience to be nice, it takes patience in kujujuran, it takes patience in every virtue so that we get a victory, such as roads that were ... would not you be patient when there are thorns injure your feet, you have to be patient when mud soiling your shoes, you have to be patient run through weeds and you had to wait while surrounded by insects ... and finally it all paid off right? There are sangatt beautiful lake .. if you're impatient, what you can? you do not get what my son, so be patient my son "
"But father, it is not easy to be patient"
"I know, therefore there are fathers who hold your hand for you to stay strong ... so is life, there are fathers and mothers will continue to be at your side so that when you fall, we could carry, but ... remember my son ... my father and mother are not forever could carry you when you fall, one day, you should be able to stand alone ... then do not ever you hang your life on someone else, be yourself ... a strong Muslim youth, who remain steadfast and istiqomah because he knew there was God on his side ... then you'll find yourself walking down life while still others decided to quit and go home ... then you finally know you? ""Yes dad, I know .. I would to heaven that beautiful lake which is more beautiful than this ... now I understand ... thank you dad, I'll be strong when the others are thrown "
The father just smiled as he looked at her beloved child's face.

Kamis, 05 Mei 2011

Twenty years ago I gave birth to a boy,
quite a handsome face but looks a bit stupid. Sam, my husband,
gave him the name of Eric. Becoming increasingly apparent that this child
is somewhat retarded. I intend to give it to someone else
only.
But Sam prevent bad intentions. Finally I was forced to also raised. In the second year after I was born Eric
rebirth of a beautiful little girl. I named Angelica. I am very fond of Angelica, as well Sam. Often we are asked to go to amusement parks and buy children's clothing-beautiful beautiful. But is not the case with Eric. He only had a few set of clothes worn. Sam intends to buy, but I always banned on the pretext of saving the family money. Sam always obey my words. When Angelica age 2 years, Sam dies world. Eric was 4 years old at the time. Our family became increasingly poor with increasing pile of debt. Finally I take action that would make me regret it for life. I left the village of my birth and Angelica. Eric is fast asleep so I left it. Then I lived in a hut after our house sold to pay debt. A year, 2 years, 5 years, 10 years .. have passed since incident. I have married again with Brad, an adult male. Age Our marriage has been stepped on in the fifth. Thanks to Brad, the properties I am the original bad tempered, selfish, and snobbish, change gradually become more patient and loving. Angelica has aged 12 years and we send her daughter at boarding school care. Nothing else remember about Eric and nothing else who remember it. Suddenly flashed back to the story's ironic that occurred before such a film that played my head. Only now I realize how bad my actions dulu.tiba Eric crossed the blue shadow back in my mind. Yes Eric, Mommy will pick you up Eric. Afternoon I had my blue car parked next to a hut, and Brad with a view of surprise at me from the side. "Mary, what actually happened? "
"Oh, Brad, you're definitely going to hate me after I tell this
I have done before. "I was told also by sobbing. Apparently God really good to me. He has give a husband who is so kind and understanding. After the tears I stopped, I came out of the car followed by Brad from behind. My eyes stared at the shacks that stretched two feet from before me. I began to remember how the shack I have ever live several months and Eric .. Eric ... But I did not find anyone inside. There is only
battered piece of cloth lying on the ground floor. I took a while watching him closely ... eyes began to glaze, I recognize pieces of cloth as a former battered old clothes worn Eric daily. I was surprised because it was dark atmosphere once. Then looked into the faces of people that are so dirty. Apparently he was an old lady. Back when I gasped in surprise he suddenly admonished me with a husky voice.
"Heii ...! Who are you?! What are you here?! "
With courage, I asked, "Mom, what the mother knew with a boy named Eric who used to live here? "
He replied, "If you mother, you really have the heart, you know, 10 years ago since you left here, keep Eric
waiting for his mother and called out, '... Mommy, mommy! "Because no bear,
I sometimes feed him and invited me to stay Together. Although I am poor and just work as scavengers,
but I will not leave my child like that! Three months ago Eric left this piece of paper. He learned to write
every day for years just to write this for you ... "
I also read the writing on the paper ...
"Mommy, why does Mommy do not ever come back again ...? Mommy's mad at Eric, yes? Mom, who let Eric go, but Mommy had to promise if Mommy is not going to get angry again at Eric. Bye, Mom ... "
I screamed hysterically read the letter. "Mom, please tell ...
tell me where is he now? I promise I will love now!
I will not leave him again, Mom! Please tell ..!!" Brad hugged my body is shaking hard.
"Lady, it was too late. The day before the lady came, Eric had died. He died in the back of this shack. Her body very thin, he is very weak. Just for the sake of waiting he was willing to endure behind this shack without he dare enter into it. He was afraid when it comes Mommy, Mommy was going to go see it again when in there ... He just hopes to see his Mommy from shack behind this ... Despite pouring rain, with the condition
weak he continues to insist there waiting for Madame. "


FROM:http://www.resensi.net/kisah-cinta-seorang-anak/2008/05/
Sahabat, maaf sebelumnya kalau pernah ada yang baca tentang Bai Fang Li. Seorang yang istimewa. Istimewa bukan karena dudukan dan harta, istimewa bukan karena kemewahan dan jabatannya. Namun istimewa karena apa yang ada di hatinya, yaitu kedermawanan.
Tentu kita kenal dengan Oprah Winfrey. Jika dia menyumbang ratusan dan ribuan dolar, tentu kita kagum namun tidaklah terkejut. Mungkin juga rajanya microsoft, Bill Gates yang mendermakan jutaan dolar, kita juga barangkali menganggap hal hebat yang biasa saja. Namun saat kita diperlihatkan kedermawanan dari orang yang dalam kesusahan, itu adalah hal yang tentunya mengetuk hati kita. Berikut adalah  cerita tentang Bai Fang Li. File ini telah ada di komputer saya sejak lama. Tidak ada salahnya saya bagikan kepada sahabat..
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BAI FANG LI adalah seorang tukang becak. Seluruh hidupnya dihabiskankan di atas sadel becaknya, mengayuh dan mengayuh untuk memberi jasanya kepada orang yang naik becaknya. Mengantarkan kemana saja pelanggannya menginginkannya, dengan imbalan uang sekedarnya.
Tubuhnya tidaklah perkasa. Perawakannya malah tergolong kecil untuk ukuran becaknya atau orang-orang yang menggunakan jasanya. Tetapi semangatnya luar biasa untuk bekerja. Mulai jam enam pagi setelah melakukan rutinitasnya untuk bersekutu dengan Tuhan. Dia melalang dijalanan, di atas becaknya untuk mengantar para pelanggannya. Dan ia akan mengakhiri kerja kerasnya setelah jam delapan malam.
Para pelanggannya sangat menyukai Bai Fang Li, karena ia pribadi yang ramah dan senyum tak pernah lekang dari wajahnya. Dan ia tak pernah mematok berapa orang harus membayar jasanya. Namun karena kebaikan hatinya itu, banyak orang yang menggunakan jasanya membayar lebih. Mungkin karena tidak tega, melihat bagaimana tubuh yang kecil malah tergolong ringkih itu dengan nafas yang ngos-ngosan (apalagi kalau jalanan mulai menanjak) dan keringat bercucuran berusaha mengayuh becak tuanya.
Bai Fang Li tinggal disebuah gubuk reot yang nyaris sudah mau rubuh, di daerah yang tergolong kumuh, bersama dengan banyak tukang becak, para penjual asongan dan pemulung lainnya. Gubuk itupun bukan miliknya, karena ia menyewanya secara harian. Perlengkapan di gubuk itu sangat sederhana. Hanya ada sebuah tikar tua yang telah robek-robek dipojok-pojoknya, tempat dimana ia biasa merebahkan tubuh penatnya setelah sepanjang hari mengayuh becak.
Gubuk itu hanya merupakan satu ruang kecil dimana ia biasa merebahkan tubuhnya beristirahat, diruang itu juga ia menerima tamu yang butuh bantuannya, diruang itu juga ada sebuah kotak dari kardus yang berisi beberapa baju tua miliknya dan sebuah selimut tipis tua yang telah bertambal-tambal. Ada sebuah piring seng comel yang mungkin diambilnya dari tempat sampah dimana biasa ia makan, ada sebuah tempat minum dari kaleng. Di pojok ruangan tergantung sebuah lampu templok minyak tanah, lampu yang biasa dinyalakan untuk menerangi kegelapan di gubuk tua itu bila malam telah menjelang.
Bai Fang Li tinggal sendirian digubuknya. Dan orang hanya tahu bahwa ia seorang pendatang. Tak ada yang tahu apakah ia mempunyai sanak saudara sedarah. Tapi nampaknya ia tak pernah merasa sendirian, banyak orang yang suka padanya, karena sifatnya yang murah hati dan suka menolong.Tangannya sangat ringan menolong orang yang membutuhkan bantuannya, dan itu dilakukannya dengan sukacita tanpa mengharapkan pujian atau balasan.
Dari penghasilan yang diperolehnya selama seharian mengayuh becaknya, sebenarnya ia mampu untuk mendapatkan makanan dan minuman yang layak untuk dirinya dan membeli pakaian yang cukup bagus untuk menggantikan baju tuanya yang hanya sepasang dan sepatu bututnya yang sudah tak layak dipakai karena telah robek. Namun dia tidak melakukannya, karena semua uang hasil penghasilannya disumbangkannya kepada sebuah Yayasan sederhana yang biasa mengurusi dan menyantuni sekitar 300 anak-anak yatim piatu miskin di Tianjin. Yayasan yang juga mendidik anak-anak yatim piatu melalui sekolah yang ada.
Hatinya sangat tersentuh ketika suatu ketika ia baru beristirahat setelah mengantar seorang pelanggannya. Ia menyaksikan seorang anak lelaki kurus berusia sekitar 6 tahun yang yang tengah menawarkan jasa untuk mengangkat barang seorang ibu yang baru berbelanja. Tubuh kecil itu nampak sempoyongan mengendong beban berat dipundaknya, namun terus dengan semangat melakukan tugasnya. Dan dengan kegembiraan yang sangat jelas terpancar dimukanya, ia menyambut upah beberapa uang recehan yang diberikan oleh ibu itu, dan dengan wajah menengadah ke langit bocah itu berguman, mungkin ia mengucapkan syukur pada Tuhan untuk rezeki yang diperolehnya hari itu.
Beberapa kali ia perhatikan anak lelaki kecil itu menolong ibu-ibu yang berbelanja, dan menerima upah uang recehan. Kemudian ia lihat anak itu beranjak ketempat sampah, mengais-ngais sampah, dan waktu menemukan sepotong roti kecil yang kotor, ia bersihkan kotoran itu, dan memasukkan roti itu kemulutnya, menikmatinya dengan nikmat seolah itu makanan dari surga.
Hati Bai Fang Li tercekat melihat itu, ia hampiri anak lelaki itu, dan berbagi makanannya dengan anak lelaki itu. Ia heran, mengapa anak itu tak membeli makanan untuk dirinya, padahal uang yang diperolehnya cukup banyak, dan tak akan habis bila hanya untuk sekedar membeli makanan sederhana.
“Uang yang saya dapat untuk makan adik-adik saya….” jawab anak itu.
“Orang tuamu dimana…?” tanya Bai Fang Li.
“Saya tidak tahu…., ayah ibu saya pemulung…. Tapi sejak sebulan lalu setelah mereka pergi memulung, mereka tidak pernah pulang lagi. Saya harus bekerja untuk mencari makan untuk saya dan dua adik saya yang masih kecil…” sahut anak itu.
Bai Fang Li minta anak itu mengantarnya melihat ke dua adik anak lelaki bernama Wang Ming itu. Hati Bai Fang Li semakin merintih melihat kedua adik Wang Fing, dua anak perempuan kurus berumur 5 tahun dan 4 tahun. Kedua anak perempuan itu nampak menyedihkan sekali, kurus, kotor dengan pakaian yang compang camping.
Bai Fang Li tidak menyalahkan kalau tetangga ketiga anak itu tidak terlalu perduli dengan situasi dan keadaan ketiga anak kecil yang tidak berdaya itu, karena memang mereka juga terbelit dalam kemiskinan yang sangat parah, jangankan untuk mengurus orang lain, mengurus diri mereka sendiri dan keluarga mereka saja mereka kesulitan.
Bai Fang Li kemudian membawa ke tiga anak itu ke Yayasan yang biasa menampung anak yatim piatu miskin di Tianjin. Pada pengurus yayasan itu Bai Fang Li mengatakan bahwa ia setiap hari akan mengantarkan semua penghasilannya untuk membantu anak-anak miskin itu agar mereka mendapatkan makanan dan minuman yang layak dan mendapatkan perawatan dan pendidikan yang layak.
Sejak saat itulah Bai Fang Li menghabiskan waktunya dengan mengayuh becaknya mulai jam 6 pagi sampai jam delapan malam dengan penuh semangat untuk mendapatkan uang. Dan seluruh uang penghasilannya setelah dipotong sewa gubuknya dan pembeli dua potong kue kismis untuk makan siangnya dan sepotong kecil daging dan sebutir telur untuk makan malamnya, seluruhnya ia sumbangkan ke Yayasan yatim piatu itu. Untuk sahabat-sahabat kecilnya yang kekurangan.
Ia merasa sangat bahagia sekali melakukan semua itu, ditengah kesederhanaan dan keterbatasan dirinya. Merupakan kemewahan luar biasa bila ia beruntung mendapatkan pakaian rombeng yang masih cukup layak untuk dikenakan di tempat pembuangan sampah. Hanya perlu menjahit sedikit yang tergoyak dengan kain yang berbeda warna. Mhmmm… tapi masih cukup bagus… gumannya senang.
Bai Fang Li mengayuh becak tuanya selama 365 hari setahun, tanpa perduli dengan cuaca yang silih berganti, ditengah badai salju turun yang membekukan tubuhnya atau dalam panas matahari yang sangat menyengat membakar tubuh kurusnya.
“Tidak apa-apa saya menderita, yang penting biarlah anak-anak yang miskin itu dapat makanan yang layak dan dapat bersekolah. Dan saya bahagia melakukan semua ini…,” katanya bila orang-orang menanyakan mengapa ia mau berkorban demikian besar untuk orang lain tanpa perduli dengan dirinya sendiri.
Hari demi hari, bulan demi bulan dan tahun demi tahun, sehingga hampir 20 tahun Bai Fang Li menggenjot becaknya demi memperoleh uang untuk menambah donasinya pada yayasan yatim piatu di Tianjin itu. Saat berusia 90 tahun, dia mengantarkan tabungan terakhirnya sebesar RMB 500 (sekitar 650 ribu rupiah) yang disimpannya dengan rapih dalam suatu kotak dan menyerahkannnya ke sekolah Yao Hua.
Bai Fang Li berkata, “Saya sudah tidak dapat mengayuh becak lagi. Saya tidak dapat menyumbang lagi. Ini mungkin uang terakhir yang dapat saya sumbangkan……” katanya dengan sendu.  Semua guru di sekolah itu menangis……..
Bai Fang Li wafat pada usia 93 tahun, ia meninggal dalam kemiskinan. Sekalipun begitu, dia telah menyumbangkan disepanjang hidupnya uang sebesar RMB 350.000 ( setara 470  juta rupiah) yang dia berikan kepada Yayasan yatim piatu dan sekolah-sekolah di Tianjin untuk menolong kurang lebih 300 anak-anak miskin.
Foto terakhir yang orang punya mengenai dirinya adalah sebuah foto dirinya yang bertuliskan ” Sebuah Cinta yang istimewa untuk seseorang yang luar biasa”.
from : http://www.resensi.net/cinta-istimewa-untuk-orang-yang-luar-biasa/2011/02/